Your 
relational
landscape

will
change


Our relationships change over time, as we do. How do we make choices that are in our integrity, own our desires, and intentionally shape our relational landscape towards our more authentic selves — all while keeping equity at the forefront?

Let’s talk about what you envision for your relationship landscape — and any bumps that happen while bringing it to life.


So, what’s on your mind today? Well, I think I’m falling for this new person, but I want to be caring to my original partner. They’re good with it, but also, I think I might be poly-saturated... should I still go for it? How can you tell you’re poly-saturated? I lose track of details, my attention is spread too thin. And I don’t have time to tend to myself — I’m always thinking about my relationships and don’t feel settled. Thoughts? I see. Ah, I see. I have some ideas about how to track your relational capacity. Ready to hear them?




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“That wasn’t what I expected — and it was exactly what I needed.”


— Peer Support Client


“Leah was so great in helping me navigate "non-traditional" relationship structures and my ongoing personal work on tackling jealousy issues. They helped organize my thoughts into constructive practices and tools that are actually actionable in my relationships. My work with them has made a huge difference for me and my partners!”


— Peer Support Client




Relationships happen in real-time.

And they evolve in community. We learn what’s possible, what works, and imagine futures of connection from conversations with each other. 



After a decade of unpacking my own mononormativity, heteronormativity, and whiteness in community, the feedback now is consistent: people are re-imagining their relational landscapes and seeking mentors to support their thinking and decisions. Using tools of deep listening, generative questions, and an anti-racist lens, in a 1:1 call with Leah you’ll be held in a container of non-judgement to unearth healthful relationship shapes centering choice, intentionality, equity and desire.

Peer Support Calls are $75/hour for individuals and $120-$80 (sliding scale) for duos. Half-hour sessions available. 

First call is free with referral. Your sessions are confidential and are not intended to be a replacement for therapy. 

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Leah is a white, queer, nonbinary femme invested in designing relationships to resist oppression. 



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I reverently acknowledge the Tongva, Yuhaaviatam / Maarenga’yam (Serrano), and the Duwamish peoples as the traditional stewards of the lands on which I live and work.

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